This is one of a couple of forthcoming posts inspired by the conversations at the candidacy retreat last weekend — it’s been a good week of rumination and contemplation. One comment that particularly sparked my interest was about prayer — the speaker (I think it was Bishop Maas) said that he’d never really been taught how to pray. It made me pause and consider my own prayer life, how I learned to pray. I remember reading prayers in the bulletin growing up and memorizing table and bedtime prayers and the Lord’s Prayer, and struggling to master the Apostle’s Creed. But I don’t remember anyone sitting down with me and saying, “Okay, this is how you pray.” It was just words.
It’s a question my confirmation students have been raising a lot in the past few weeks as we’ve been exploring the Lord’s Prayer: “How do you pray?” It’s a good question to ask. We always end our confirmation lessons with a prayer; however, aside from one very vocal student who, sadly, no longer attends confirmation, none of the students has ever voluntarily (and barely involuntarily) prayed at the end of class. I asked them one day how they could be so outspoken with questions and discussion during class, but then instantly clam up when it came time to pray. They replied honestly, “we don’t know how to pray.”
Well, how do you pray? Continue reading “Prayer 101” →